Yes, you summed it up perfectly. (Btw, I have a love/hate relationship with Robert Greene. I think everyone should read his books and then just try not to get depressed.)

But I do take a more benighted view of dating. I think there are tons of good guys out there. But you do have to dismiss the bad ones early to find them. (And by bad I mean men who don’t match your values. Not bad as in not hot.)