Yes, I wouldn't expect you to agree given that you always give the "numbers game" advice. I am not going to get into it with you but let's just say we have TOTALLY different approaches to love.

I don't recommend anyone schedule three dates in one day or schedule 15 minute speed dates. Nor do I recommend a super long date. I never said that.

You don't see a problem because you view relationships as transactional. That advice will work for transactional people to find other transactional people.

Those relationships won't last. Relationships built on transactions will crumble once the transaction is gone. Beauty fades. Money is lost. Sickness takes its toll.

Modern love would improve if all the shallow people found each other and left the rest of us alone.