Thank you for this insight. I think you basically summed up why I find online dating so frustrating. It’s simply not suited for people who do not care about abs, bank accounts or status. I swipe left on 6-packs for this very reason. What sane man would go up to a woman he is attracted to, drag her into a poorly lit bathroom, lift up his shirt….and show her his abs? This is why it is hard to make real connections through apps.