Carlyn Beccia
1 min readMay 17, 2021

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Oh boy did you get a lot wrong in one comment. (I am going to assume you don't read my work.) My biggest flaw is being too passive and not securing my boundaries. I take in strays. I am working on it but...sorry the ball buster, yeah I wish I was that woman. You will find most artists are not the aggressive types (if we are going to stereotype.)

Just because someone is successful does not mean they have a domineering energy.

Your comment about not dating out of my "ethnic group." So I don't date white men. I sometimes try but I just find I am not attracted to them. So I have not had a single white boyfriend in 6 years. And now the trolls can attack me for a different reason...

And I don't care how much someone makes. I don't have to. Why? Because I pursued my passion for art instead of romance. And that means I might have to stay single...so be it. Art is my husband. These boys (real men don't cheat on their wives with prostitutes) are my mistresses.

Ladies, pursue your passion, make strong friendships, and you will never spend a day unhappy.

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Carlyn Beccia
Carlyn Beccia

Written by Carlyn Beccia

Award-winning author of 13 books. My latest: 10 AT 10: The Surprising Childhoods of 10 Remarkable People, MONSTROUS: The Lore, Gore, & Science. CarlynBeccia.com

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