Jack, I always appreciate your comments because they are of the no BS variety (even when you disagree with me.) I do remember your ships comment. (Sometimes I forget to clap.) I recently had three ex boyfriends reach out to me on one day. No joke. You know...the holidays makes people lonely. But I will say this, I am a deeply flawed individual looking for love. But once something ends, I do not contact the person. I move on. And that isn't because I don't care. It's because I value the loss as much as I do the love. It teaches you to love better.
So yes, I find happiness when it is over too, even without tulips.