Interesting perspective. Since I am a traditionalist born in the wrong century, I definitely don't give those "take charge" vibes. But I could see how men could conveniently sit back and let her do all the romancing due to either laziness, timidness, or wrongly thinking women suddenly want to do all the work in a relationship. There are definitely women who like to take control of every situation. That is not me. So either way, not a good match.