I read Fray's article too. Really good. And I agree with you that marriage isn't for anyone.

I made a lot of the same mistakes that Fray made in my marriage. I did the big things but failed to see how the little things chipped away at our connection (I was your typical self-absorbed artist who never cleaned up after herself.)

I wouldn't make the same mistakes again. But I also know that marriage also isn't for me. It isn't for a lot of creative types. And that is ok.