I had to reread your description cause I kept thinking...come on, no one saves kittens, plays the guitar, and has a graduate degree.
I meet new men practically every weekend. I can't get anywhere on a dating app either. I give men my number and then they ghost or do not want to meet. (Yes, I ask.)
Do you ever go to meetups? I have met tons of women friends and men on them. I also meet tons of people through friends.
btw, for the record, my last boyfriend was bald and 5' 5." I loved him to madness. None of my friends care about height. But they are also not on dating apps either.