Carlyn Beccia
1 min readJun 12, 2021

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huh? This entire piece is about how being a jerk attracts the opposite sex. You even titled it "The magnetism of jerks."

I assure you. Jerks repel.

"This is just one of many tricks I wished I’d known when I was young and single. Acting like you’re not interested drives people crazy."

No that doesn't work. It works on low value, insecure women.

And I am not the only one who has interpreted your advice as "act like a jerk to get the girl."

You just agreed with a commenter who said "being a jerk does work!"

Your ending - it is too abrupt. It did not flow with the entire premised of your piece. Dr. Frankenstein added in a heart to his monster at the very end. Just great. Act like a jerk until it is not fun to act like a jerk anymore?

What kind of advice is that? Please, please men reading this...know you will never ever attract a woman of value if you treat her with disdain. You won't get a second shot with that woman.

Compliment her. Pay attention to her. Be kind to her friends. That is what attracts high value women.

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Carlyn Beccia
Carlyn Beccia

Written by Carlyn Beccia

Award-winning author of 13 books. My latest: 10 AT 10: The Surprising Childhoods of 10 Remarkable People, MONSTROUS: The Lore, Gore, & Science. CarlynBeccia.com

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