Hi Robert,

I get the frustration. Wouldn't the world be unicorns and rainbows if everyone only cared about our sparkling personalities and not our hip to waist ratio? And as a woman of an um...certain age, I am well aware that the bloom is starting to come off the rose.

But while that broad chest may get you in the door, it won't keep you there. Sexual selection is such a complicated subject.

Call me naive (or perhaps surrounded by too many women who are tired of gym rats) but I just refuse to believe that women are putting upper body strength at the top of their list.

There are other traits that matter so much more.

-C