Carlyn Beccia
Feb 5, 2021

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Here are my boundaries — I expect the truth. And when I ask a simple question like “what are you doing this weekend?” don’t lie and endanger my health. Because your lie could kill me. (I am on a chemo drug.) That falsehood has everything to do with me.

And considering we were getting to a point that it could have easily turned sexual, I deserved to know if he was sleeping with someone else. And I always make that perfectly clear to anyone I am dating BEFORE I have sex with them.

Those are my boundaries. And if you cross those boundaries, I will cut you out like a cancerous tumor.

Btw, when you join Bumble, you give up a small piece of privacy — your location. And everyone knows this. If you don’t want to give up that privacy…then use another dating app!

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Carlyn Beccia
Carlyn Beccia

Written by Carlyn Beccia

Award-winning author of 13 books. My latest: 10 AT 10: The Surprising Childhoods of 10 Remarkable People, MONSTROUS: The Lore, Gore, & Science. CarlynBeccia.com

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