Great advice. Study of one…Every long-term relationship I have ever been in came from not having sex until we had the exclusive talk. The only downside to this approach is you can risk wasting 3-4 months of dating only to realize the sexual chemistry is meh.

And that casual guy who you convince/trap into a commitment he never wanted...i changed one of those guys once. It was the worst relationship of my life. Be careful what you wish. 🤷🏻‍♀️

The good guys are out there. But you have to kiss some devilishly handsome commitment-phobic princes before their warts appear.