Carlyn Beccia
1 min readJun 13, 2021

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Edward, I think you are starting to predict my writing topics because I originally began this piece about incels and the Black Pill. (I posed as one on Reddit and let's just say it was illuminating.)

But then I came to the same conclusion - I wasn't going to change any of their minds. And I doubt they are Medium readers. (But I still think they need to be exposed as domestic terrorism.)

I do still see some of this PUA advice on relationships vlogs, podcasts and yes...Medium. (I read one recently on this platform.) It's very subtle but there are men still teaching other men that being a jerk gets you more female attention.

Those men are usually young and have not experienced a supportive relationship with a healthy person. And those are the ones I am trying to reach. And even if can convince just one that real men respect women...I have done my job.

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Carlyn Beccia
Carlyn Beccia

Written by Carlyn Beccia

Award-winning author of 13 books. My latest: 10 AT 10: The Surprising Childhoods of 10 Remarkable People, MONSTROUS: The Lore, Gore, & Science. CarlynBeccia.com

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