Boys tend to emulate their fathers more than their mothers. I would work on the dysfunctional dads too. It takes two for a child to grow up feeling lost and unloved.

And no, we cannot only pursue how an incel is made. That's like locking the door with the burglar already in the house. They have a wikipedia page claiming women enjoy rape. Sorry, but incels aren't going anywhere. We need to first stop the disinformation.